It is almost end of July 2007 and I feel that this month is coming out to be good for me so far. The things that happened in past in this month make me feel like so. I met one of my good friends in New York after a long time. The best part was that it was his birthday when we met. It was an amazing day, I was with one of my best friends but then the happiness is a relative term. I was happy and at the same time a bit sad. I was sad because I was away from someone very close to my heart......
It happens that this life gives you happiness for a short span of time and then suddenly snatches all it has given you......It keeps on throwing bombshells but one has to get used to them because you do not have any other option in dealing these astonishments......
When you get close to someone, just try to accept that tomorrow it can happen that the same person is not available for you ever in life again. It can happen overnight that you can be forced to live without that one person for the rest of life........
You may cry but then who's there to listen to you.......you may remember those good memories and tears will shed out of your eyes but ths is life dude and it keeps on challenging us........
The only thing that remains eternally is the feeling of your love deep inside of your heart for that one person for whom you would have put even your life at stake at some point of time.......
But love gives you an internal satisfaction and also the pain. its your own opinion to choose what you want to select out of these two things...............
For all those heart brkoens, we have some very nice hindi songs like Beete Lamhein from movie The Train, Kuch is Tarah by ATIF ASLAM but listening to all these songs will drown you in the sea of good memories you had in the past and you will only be left alone in this world. I believe in setting an example as far this term love is concerned. Love a person and just love her. Be there when she needs you and go out of her life when she is not alone. this is the true test of love and it has to be accepted by all the true lovers. Love can neverbe implied on anyone. it is Natural and very few people have the guts to accept it. Others are coward who do not have power to express their feelings to that one most important person of their life. Thus, I would summarize all this by saying just one line and that is Love someone and just love her. No matter you get her or not but just love her because its very difficult to find a true love and when you find it, it becomes more difficult to leave her. This is my pedagogy of Love and I know that I may be wrong.....
Saturday, July 14, 2007
Tuesday, July 3, 2007
The Unanswered Questions
People say they are in love. They say that admiring a person is their life and name it love but do they actually know what this 4 letter word means. It means Liking Over Values with Emotions. Love is that eternal feeling that you develop for a person whom you respect, like her talks, like her thought process but at the same time it is a feeling which does not demand anything. Love comes in everyone's life but in different forms. Sometimes a person loves you but you do not like her just because she is not good looking but does looks matter? People say yes and I have a different opinion from them. It is the purity of the heart that matters and not this materialistic beauty. One needs to be beautiful from the bottom of her heart and not from the face.
Love is a feeling which makes you unfettered but at the same fettered. The pedagogy of love says that love should be one sided. You should be free enough to enjoy your life as you want but at the same time committed enough to stick to that one person. You find many people whom you like but does that mean that you love all of them?
Love gives you an opportunity but at the same time demands a lot of things in compromise. Does this mean that one should not love?
Sometimes, love leaves some bad memories but does that stop you from loving anyone else?
We should always be willing to love a person who cares for you but people are not ready to do the same; the reason is that they want beauty, they usually forget that in love target is search of a true soul and not the search of this temporary beauty.
There are some who find a true soul but they do not accept them just because they had a bad past. Does someone's bad experience overpower so much that she can not accept someone's true love also?
These are what I feel few unsanswered questions for which people wait their lifetime to get the answer but they remain clueless.
Love is a feeling which makes you unfettered but at the same fettered. The pedagogy of love says that love should be one sided. You should be free enough to enjoy your life as you want but at the same time committed enough to stick to that one person. You find many people whom you like but does that mean that you love all of them?
Love gives you an opportunity but at the same time demands a lot of things in compromise. Does this mean that one should not love?
Sometimes, love leaves some bad memories but does that stop you from loving anyone else?
We should always be willing to love a person who cares for you but people are not ready to do the same; the reason is that they want beauty, they usually forget that in love target is search of a true soul and not the search of this temporary beauty.
There are some who find a true soul but they do not accept them just because they had a bad past. Does someone's bad experience overpower so much that she can not accept someone's true love also?
These are what I feel few unsanswered questions for which people wait their lifetime to get the answer but they remain clueless.
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